“A hustling man needs a hustling girlfriend not a patient one” – Nigerian man (video)

“A hustling man needs a hustling girlfriend not a patient one” – Nigerian man (video)

A young Nigerian man has taken to social media to share his opinion about women who patiently stick with their man while he’s still struggling financially.

The man in a video shared on social media averred that what a man needs in his hustling stage is a hustling woman and not a patient woman.

According to him, a woman should also work to achieve her dreams rather than just stay with a man with the mindset that she is patiently waiting for him to become successful.

Speaking further, he questioned ladies who praise themselves for sticking with a man who’s struggling and wondered if they are not also interested in working hard to have the life they so much desire.

Watch him speak below,

Meanwhile, a Lady has taken to her social media page to advise that it is often dangerous when a woman marries down (financially) because men’s ego are fragile and in most cases, their insecurities would cause more harm than good.

According to the lady, she ignored her relatives’ advice and warnings and went ahead to marry a man she earns more than but like her family had predicted, it was a wrong decision.

She revealed that only 6 months in, she said the man wanted her to fund his projects and expected her to give him loans. She also said he took offense because she wanted him to double his career steps rather than live off her.

She added that abuse started then and when she chose she couldn’t take it anymore and had to leave, he employed emotional blackmail.