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I was trying to say that breaking a vow is worse than just casual sex’ – IK Ogbonna defends his opinion on cheating


Reacting to backlash that came from his controversial opinion that it
isn’t cheating when a married man/woman sleeps with another person
without being emotionally attached, actor IK Ogbonna shared a selfie
with wife Sonia on Instagram and wrote:

So normally I’ld see a post of myself and let it slide , but in this
case I’ld address it coz it was represented in a way and manner that
speaks contrary to everything I represent .

From my little understanding cheating (in general) is when someone
acts dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage, especially
in a game or examination or even a real life situation. IF YOU GOT TO
HEAR THE FULL INTERVIEW (not only 20 sec of it) you would understand
that I am NOT in support of men or women having SEX with other people
aside the one the call their own . Firstly,sex with anyone that’s not ur
wife or husband a sin against God . However,I was trying to say that
Breaking a vow is worse than an act we would refer to as cheating(just
casual sex), and when I say VOW I refer to a spiritual&emotional nut
between two people.

The truth is, Sex in our age and time has been reduced to a
recreational activity,and so sorry to say, has made it loose its value
in so many ways because it’s easy to find and to get. As much as
possible I preach that we should build self control and focus on one
person but when we look at things from the rear view of reality having
sex without being emotionally attached to the person can slide as a
casual event (still 100% wrong) and still means you disrespected your
partner (in)directly,you hurt his/hers feelings and worst of all: break
the trust that y’all were building for so long.

But in this case I was referring to people that invest emotions and
feeling in some other person whilst their spouse falls into the
disadvantage (wether you are having sex or not). In this case the other
person (your partner) suffers coz now you have to share your time ,
finance, and emotions that should be the sole rights of that one person
you choose to build your life with. Bottom line,loyalty is a beautiful
thing.

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